Habit formation is great, but when you hang out with people important to you, it’s important your habits are flexible enough to let them in. Depending on how much time you spend with someone should help in deciding how closely you follow your habit scripts.
For example, if you see someone everyday they must be flexible to the habits that make you successful. But if you only see people twice a year, your habits must be flexible for them. Time spent with people important to you is worth the temporary sacrifice of habits.